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The
Ministry Of Pastoral Care
The ministry of pastoral care with teens has
several distinct features that provide direction to comprehensive ministry
efforts.
Specifically,
pastoral care
- Develops the life skills of teens, such
as relationship building, assertiveness, nonviolent conflict resolution,
decision making, and planning;
- Guides young people in making important
life decisions, such as career and college choices, and discerning their
particular Christian vocation;
- Fosters the spiritual development of young
people and the healthy integration of their sexuality and spirituality;
- Creates networks of care and support for
young people and their families;
- Provides programs and resources for parent
education and skills for effective parenting that incorporate understandings
of adolescent development and family life cycle tasks;
- Strengthens family life by assisting families
to improve family skills, such as communication, decision making, problem
solving, and reconciliation;
- Provides and connects teens and families
to support services, referral resources, and self-help groups to promote
healing during times of loss, sudden change, unexpected crises, problems,
and family or personal transitions;
- Provides support and enrichment for teens
and parents experiencing divorce, separation, or family problems; and
connects them to appropriate counseling resources;
- Collaborates with the wider community in
providing direct aid to youth-at-risk in the form of programs, services,
and counseling.
Special attention should be given to young people who engage in high-risk
behaviors that endanger their own health and well-being. These young
people often have multiple problems that can severely limit their futures-fragmented
family life, poor school performance, antisocial behavior, eating disorders,
sexual activity, sexual confusion as they struggle with identity, and
alcohol or drug use, to name several. The Church is called to work with
the wider community to address the needs of these young people. Ministry
to these young people may be the most important way they will come to
know and feel the love of God- through people who love them and care
for them just at the point when they themselves feel least worthy and
lovable.
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